A FINANCIAL dominatrix has claimed to cash in £8,000 a day and even gets paid over £1,500 just to unblock men on social media.
The North Carolina native, who goes by the name of Mistress Marley, first became a sex worker after she found it hard to make a living in New York.
After losing her job in retail, the now entrepreneur has found herself as the public face of the findom world.
Findom, also known as Financial Domination, is a fetish lifestyle in which a financial submissive desires to give gifts or money to a financial dominant.
And now, this 29-year-old is on a mission to teach others how to get into the industry too.
The influencer, who has 50,600 followers on Instagram, recently left people stunned after starring on the fourth episode of the new series of Olivia Attwood: Getting Filthy Rich.
The ITV show explores how people around the country are earning a fast fortune in the adult industry.
Loose Women and Love Island star Olivia, 33, was met with the content creator, one of the show’s latest stars making a killing online for her adult content.
Mistress Marley now holds meetings whereby she will teach women everything they need to know about the industry – and women will have to pay up to $300 [£240] to attend.
She explained: “I realised there were so many women that wanted to get into the industry but didn’t know where to start, I was like, why not just start doing classes.
“What makes a good findom is someone who looks out for themselves and knows that all money is not good money either.”
Mistress Marley’s popularity has increased so much over the last few years that men now need to pay anything between £4 and £400 to simply have a conversation with her.
And if she blocks a bloke on social media, they’ll have to pay up to get unblocked too, as she confessed: “If you want to be unblocked, you have to pay an unblock fee.
“I had a guy send $1,000 [£795], then he sent $2,000 [£1,590] more and put ‘please unblock me’.
“Sometimes the more I ignore them, the more [money] they will send to get my attention.”
Cashing in
By chatting to men, Mistress Marley can now make $10,000 [£8,000] in a day.
And she claimed that “never feels sorry for taking their money”, as she acknowledged: “I’ve have [submissives] that have dealt with depression, and being able to see me and talk to me and serve me, helped them.”
Despite this, she also claimed: “Definitely some do get addicted.
If you want to be unblocked, you have to pay an unblock fee
Mistress Marley
“I’ve had [submissives] and even when they’ve gone out to bars with their friends, they’re like ‘I can’t spend this money because I know it belongs to you’.”
Mistress Marley encourages others looking to follow in her footsteps to be a ‘brat’, as she revealed: “It’s all about humiliation.
“When the submissive sends you the money it’s telling them they’re stupid, they’re a loser.”
After watching Mistress Marley share her knowledge in her masterclass, Olivia confessed: “That’s the first school lesson I’ve ever attended that I actually enjoyed.”
However, she recognised: “I was a bit horrified, I’m not gonna lie.”
Quick transactions
Not only this, in a previous essay in Newsweek, Mistress Marley detailed that she will also meet with men in public, where she will go up to them, demand their money, and then walk away once the transaction is done.
What is a findom fetish?
FINDOM is a fetish where a submissive will give extravagant gifts and money to their financial dominatrix.
A findom fetish uses the submissive/dominant relationship dynamic of many other fetishes.
The submissive is usually well off or financially stable, although they do not have to be, and give gifts and money to a financial dominant.
These submissives are sometimes called finsubs (financial submissive) or money slaves.
While the relationships often involve other BDSM practices, there is no requirement of intimacy in a findom relationship.
Although this is similar to a sugar baby or other monetary fetishes, those are often not a dominant relationship whereas this is based on a total power exchange.
In extreme dynamics, the finsub might grant all their money and other aspects of their autonomy to the dominant.
She shared: “It’s humiliation. The men get sexual satisfaction from the loss of control.
“They know they’re giving their money to someone they’re not going to meet and who doesn’t truly care about them. Something about that makes them sexually aroused.”
She then clarified: “But this all happens between two consenting adults and usually, a responsible domme will make sure that they are checking in with their subs to ensure they can still afford it.
“You’re never forcing anyone to send you money. At the end of the day, the subs have to log into whatever app they are using and send you the money themselves.”
Thanks to her saucy career, Mistress Marley has had everything from people putting her onto their life insurance policies, to men paying her rent.
In findom, I have 10 regular subs who send me money every morning
Mistress Marley
Now, she has a three-bedroom apartment in New York that was paid for and furnished by her submissives – and they also cover her bills too.
Additionally, with the money these men have sent her, she was able to splash out on posh holidays, her student loans, and help out her parents financially.
Mistress Marley also makes money by being a regular dominatrix, who participates in impact play and foot worship.
She explained: “In findom, I have 10 regular subs who send me money every morning, or we are on a weekly schedule, and in my pro domination work, I have five dedicated subs who I work with.”
Teaching others
Opening up on her masterclasses, she continued: “I knew I had to teach so I created my Sexcademy in early 2020, and now I also earn money from teaching domination.
“Because I felt like I didn’t have a safe space as a Black dominatrix, I created the Black Domme Sorority.
“I didn’t want other Black women to experience what I had been through.
“We now have 90 members across the US. and internationally and are hoping to bring in 60 new members this fall.
“It’s the most cherished space I have ever created in my life. Along with two other members, I’m also planning to open a dungeon in New York.”
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